CLASSIC HOOVER MANEUVER EXAMPLE FROM MY REAL LIFE EX NARC
Three months ago my ex narcopath broke up with his most recent target. He lives three thousand miles away. A distance I have been very pleased with. So, as predicted, came the Hoover letter. I thought I would share it with you today, as it is a classic hoover attempt. “I’ve changed”, “I finally realized It’s been you all along”, ” I know I ruined your life but some how I believe YOU owe Me an apology for being upset about it”. You certainly owe me an apology for trying to warn and expose me for the phony psychopath I really am”. Mix in a little fond memories in the hopes to rekindle something within you, feign taking “some” vague responsibility for things, “if I could talk to her on the phone my powers of persuasion would be so much more effective, I hope she calls”….. blah blah blah.
Now what he was actually looking for was a meal ticket back to the east coast, shelter, food, and someone to take care of him here. He hates where he lives, which is in Arizona AND as we know, narcs can’t go without supply or be alone in any manner. The only way he could afford to discard this little lamb is if he had somewhere to go and a place to stay upon arrival. When I told him to go ahead and take the next bus to Hell. Less than a few weeks later, miraculously, he was back together with the most recent target, and bless her heart, it’s just so cute how she now believes she’s actually “engaged” to him. FYI, she’s his fifth or sixth “fiance”. The saddest part is this……if I had fallen for his lies and attempts at manipulation, he would be here, not “engaged” to this recent target/victim. So, obviously his feelings for her are real and genuine.
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